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That Swenglish accent is crazy😅 (swedish-english)

I lived with two of them. And honestly they know they lie. And when u called them out. Here comes the anger. When they were cheating. They knew they were lying.

Key words “could be” and takes years of committed, hard work. This does not inspire much hope for significant change.

this man does not represent all of us, lmfao, oh lawdyyy

There's a considerable amount of evidence, including twin studies, that point to a substantial genetic/ congenital component with BPD. Every child born will color their experiences with their own neurological filters. What is "traumatic" to one child might be the "best experience ever" to another in the same exact family.

WTcrap with the mask. Lost any credibility the interviewer had. God bless the lady being interviewed.

Narcs are non self reflective and sure ain't receptive for🤔 humbling admissions

For everything this doctor says, she might as well say my partner's name specifically. At home right now, in the process of actually facing all of this. Ten years ago i read about BPD and I realized it was my partner. I did not harp on it, he did not want to hear it, but it helped me to understand and better deal with how he is. I had read that it gets better with age and I remained hopeful that we could have a future. But he had a betrayal (real or perceived is hard to know for sure) at work starting about 2 years ago, and it has since been a rapid spiraling descent. Three months ago he had back surgery, after which, during his recovery which I was helping him with, I had to agonizingly witness him drinking and falling and screaming in pain, sabotaging the surgery repair which we had all put our lives on hold for for several months. Now I am just feeling so traumatized. And I told him he needs help, and not just from me anymore. I am so sad about it and so angry, but being at angry at him is like being angry at a 2-year old. He knows how upset I am, yet yesterday he looked at me with his sad eyes and said "What's the matter?". !!!!???? I am so exhausted from feeling like Im constantly taking crazy pills. I feel like I am now going down with him. He destroys almost everything. Over the years i have gradually replaced the dishes with plastic or metal ones. My good things have to stay in boxes. I am a strong person, but I have started doing strange things like sleeping on the floor with my head under the desk just in case he might wander around at night and accidentally step me. Seriously messed up, I think I am having some kind of a trauma reaction myself. ? I have never written a comment on youtube before. I think I am searching for what to do. We are old now, he is 70 and I am 60.

The toxic BF was /is a Doctor!!!?

A narc is the utter selfish asshole - nothing else, whatever the reason or history.

I wonder how that will go: a narcissist in therapy. Can they really better themselves?

The continuous internal struggle must be exhausting!

Wow - I do sound for media film etc and this backdrop lighting scheme is kind of breakthrough! Thanks for all your work

Politicians suffer from malignant narcissism, they are almost impossible to be treated in therapy.

The invention of BPD ? Never more crazy than a RUclips grift

In my experience, both. They think the majority of lies are justified. Except the big ones. Which they think are about 10% as offensive as they actually are. Zero trust. Zero safety. Don't engage.

You havnt got borderline personality disorder no way ! I knew you and you took lots and lots and lots of cocaine and spend your life on line … in different profiles to hide … if you have a personality disorder now you created your own .. through spending too much time sniffing round others lives like a dank rat on heat 😂😎

Oh fuck man what s nightmare

I love being an overt narc. Wouldn't change it for the world

On point ... lol ... so much so I only feel somewhat normal when I'm being attentive as that way I can hold onto being someone who dose the right thing .... perfect simple reality

I dont understand this? Stop sweeping. Why would I just leave it.

I have been branded as a narcissist by my friends recently. Now Im trying to make sure I make it about the people I talk to instead of mmaking it abou tme when I speak. In all honesty, I keep feeling there is no way out once Im branded as a narcissist. So here I am, hoping to find ways to be more mentally mature and stop my narcissistic habits.

Finally a description of narcissism that provides a deeper and much more rounded understanding of the disorder. Most channels I looked at to learn about narcissism only bash and blame narcissists and stop there. It always leaves me unsatisfied. This here makes much more sense to me. Grateful 🙏🏻

Has anyone ever stifled the connection of vitamin/hormone deficiencies and this type of behavior issues?

Subjective symbolic significance

Great questions

You are the supply for a malignant narcissist. If you're not in compliance, you are the enemy. For me, going no contact was all I could do.

If someone who is conscientious means that strives for perfection and therefore is a narcissist, then I'll gladly and wholeheartedly will wear the narcissism label like a badge of honor.

Stunning humility. Coming so far to really look at yourself and endure guilt and shame. I can not even imagine the strength not to brake going this road.

What an experienced, compassionate, wise soul he is. Thank you for being on the planet in such a great time of need for your guidance.

Dexters dark passenger monologue says it perfectly

Could this be tied in anyway to why I spent years of my life dissasociated and trying to understand everything about myself and everyone elses lives...........

A child of a NPD parent may be NPD, and/or BPD. And vice versa. My friend's ex-wife is NPD (wounded), her brother covert NPD, (their mother was NPD), and the ex-wife's older child is NPD, and a younger BPD. ...

My Bullshitmeter has been broken by this video

They know what they're doing is wrong....

It was like dealing with emotional whiplash with my ex with bpd. Never met anyone so damaged, so changeable and so cold at times. He would just end the relationship and go quiet for weeks/months and then come back like nothing happened. It was always doomed and I had to work hard to maintain my own emotional stability. I have a lot of compassion for him but pleased its in my rear view window.

I hope Liz is doing ok today 😢 I totally understand what shes talking about

A narc can create a BPD and not work well in family therapy.

I didn't find any discussion about covert narcissism on the channel.

God, thank you for sharing, this is so helpful to learn.

So, a narc is first a borderline, at a young age, I presume, and then creates a narc structure to deal with the pain they feel...

Borderlines are created by narc. The title here is hard to grasp.

Fascinating.

Diana Diamond is quite helpful here. I think we are all prone to lapsing into a little narcissism, some more than others. Either way, it's wonderful that Diana is providing help rather than giving up and attacking the narcissist. Thank you for posting this video.

What a stupid analogy

I call myself a chameleon because I can camouflage into almost any situation. My demeanor changes, my mood changes, and even my accent will slightly change. It took me years to realize it was happening. It feels like I'm the only one that's really aware of everything and everyone else are kind of like NPCs

4:20 he's talking about bpd there. Not really good video on differentiation tbh

I just wanted to point out how much this is a lot like a relationship with a parent. Clearly treatment for them involves needing a safe parental space they were never able to have…

I always think people are not same in terms of emotionality. On a regular day, a well resilient emotional person is open to get hurt, bounce back by finding solutions, learn from an incident. Many intelligent people can not do that. Narcissism might have something to do with base emotionality. You look at a kid and adolescent, you see there isn't enough frame or tenacity to handle the big blows of a human life. You accept it as a phase. Many turn out well as grown ups. The emotional deficient guy, much alike a big physical difficulty, has to keep pace, but not in that well endowed manner. His signature style, as others would see it, is actually a horrible trauma within and without. We need to expect less, as much we would not want an physical disabled to take up tough tasks.

How is David now? Hope he's doing well